
It's time to stop drifting and start living.
You've achieved what you set out to achieve. You've built the life everyone said you should want. But somewhere along the way, you lost yourself. It doesn't have to stay this way.
You're not failing. You're succeeding—at least on paper. Good career. Stable life. All the boxes checked.
But here's what no one talks about: external success doesn't guarantee internal peace.
You wake up asking, "Is this all there is?"
You go to bed knowing you're capable of more.
You're living on autopilot, wondering when you lost the plot.
The truth is simple: You didn't lose your way. You just never had a map.
Most men aren't taught how to build a life that fits—one that reflects who they actually are, not who they were told to be. You were taught to perform, to achieve, to provide. But no one taught you how to live with clarity, purpose, and intention.
That's where I come in.
I'm Father Michael Butler—Orthodox priest, pastoral counselor, and coach. For over 30 years, I've guided men through the hardest transitions of their lives: identity crises, career pivots, relationship breakdowns, and the quiet desperation of feeling stuck.
At 49, I had my own reckoning. A panic attack forced me to confront a brutal question: "Am I living by my values, or by everyone else's expectations?"
That moment changed everything. I rebuilt my life from the inside out. And in the years since, I've helped hundreds of men do the same.
Here's what I know: Transformation doesn't happen by accident. It happens when you get clear about what matters, build systems that support growth, and live with intention instead of reaction.
You don't need more motivation. You need a framework. A guide. Someone who's walked this road and can help you walk it too.
30+ years guiding men through major life transitions
Orthodox priest and pastoral counselor
Personal transformation story: rebuilt life after mid-life crisis
Hundreds of men coached through clarity, purpose, and freedom


Discover what's holding you back, identify old patterns that no longer serve you, and define what success actually looks like—for you, not for everyone else.

Replace reactive living with intentional practices. Develop habits, frameworks, and environments that turn potential into results—and make transformation sustainable.

Experience what it feels like to show up as the man you're capable of being—present, engaged, purposeful, and free from the weight of wasted potential.

Let's start with a free 60-minute Clarity Call.
During this call, we'll:
Diagnose what's actually holding you back
Identify the patterns keeping you stuck
Outline your next three steps toward clarity and purpose
Determine if coaching is the right fit
Men of all ages have transformed their lives through mentorship, structure, and a renewed sense of purpose. Explore their stories and see what’s possible when a man commits to his own growth.
You wake up with clarity about your direction—no more drifting
You make decisions from strength, not fear or obligation
Your relationships improve because you're finally showing up fully
You build habits that reflect your values, not just your habits if coaching is the right fit
You experience the freedom of living intentionally, not reactively
You stop wondering "Is this all there is?" and start building what matters

Avg2Alpha is a coaching platform helping men gain clarity, strength, and purpose through personal development, spiritual grounding, and proven mentorship from Fr. Mike.